Hi Skylark,
I am reading a facinating book, Hold onto Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr Gordon Neufeld. I think it is relevant to homeschoolers because it addresses socialization concerns often brought up as an argument against homeschooling. I have also seen it recommended, on several occasions, by homeshcoolers. So far, I'm 3/4 of the way through reading it, it seems to be written mostly for the parent that has a teen that is getting out of contorl, but at the same time for anyone, parents or teachers, that is in contact with children. Anyway, I think this
preview can better explain the book than I can.