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« Reply #15 on: October 08, 2010, 06:41:06 PM »

Sthomas9,

I was telling my mom about your situation and she suggested spending an afternoon outside the day care place and meeting each parent as they entered to pick up their child.  You could tell them each of your story or have it written out for them as most parents are usually in a hurry after work. She said that you should ask them to stop by the daycare unexpectedly, too, to see if anything is inappropriate.  And, of course, to let you know if they have similar complaints.  Sometimes it's cheaper and easier emotionally if you have another family to work with when you file your complaint with the authorities.

But please don't keep this to yourself.  I know that your other option is letting God deal with it, but in the Bible it says to pray for our leaders - that is our government - and so, if we are to pray for them they must be part of God's plan to help us keep order in our world.  Please consult someone who is able to help you and prevent it from happening to any other child. 

If I can be very honest with you, and I obviously only know what you've told us about the situation, but if my child was in the same daycare as your son and a few months later something similar happened to him...I would be so utterly disappointed to hear that it could have been prevented.

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« Reply #16 on: October 08, 2010, 07:12:03 PM »

Oh if I were a nanny and the parents were ok with it I would-be fine with bathe a child. However like sthomas said there are 13 children to 2 adults. That doesn't sound like a safe environment to bathe a child. And just to protect myself and my family I just choice not to. My personnal comfort level.

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« Reply #17 on: October 08, 2010, 07:19:48 PM »

I can't say that I'd choose to bath another child either.  As a former camp director and classroom teacher, its been drilled into me to NEVER be alone with a child.  NEVER...let alone a naked child.  But this is a little off topic.

SThomas, if you do decide to proceed with charges, please let us know - you, obviously, will be able to get much support from this community.  You may have to go to meetings and fill out paperwork alone, but we'll be here to encourage you through it.

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« Reply #18 on: October 08, 2010, 09:41:29 PM »

sthomas9,
I am very sorry to hear what you and your child have been through. It is unbeliebable that people like this may be runnig a day care. I don't know how i will react in this situation. But as kizudo said, you have to do something. Think if there had been before any other abuse and nobody warn you of this., how would you feel.

...if my child was in the same daycare as your son and a few months later something similar happened to him...I would be so utterly disappointed to hear that it could have been prevented.


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« Reply #19 on: October 09, 2010, 01:09:05 AM »

sthomas9,
 I will actually pull my child out from this program  right now!!if  you are going to  report this case to the authorities,I don't think is a good idea to keep your child there. You should have more options, there is always another window open!!
I wish you the best courage to deal with this!!


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« Reply #20 on: October 09, 2010, 03:05:46 AM »

Very wild behaviour  huh I second each and every word of kizudo's.

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« Reply #21 on: October 09, 2010, 09:37:57 AM »

Your poor heart must be aching. Mine is aching for you and your little boy's suffering.

These people must be reported!

The fact that she felt her behaviour was justified is even more concerning, you can't help but wonder what other strange attitudes they have and what other awful predicaments the children have been put in.

Remember your bond and love with your child will help him to come out the end of this without trauma, you can always repair these things.

However, it is our responsibility to ensure that those who can't protect themselves are protected and to do that you will need to report them. If you are concerned about repercussions you will be able to make an anonymous report. I can understand your mum's viewpoint. However, in this case a report could prevent far worse things from happening. People who have such disrespect for other human beings will have many other horrid little habits. The beauty of this situation is that an adult witnessed the abuse - there is no doubt about their behaviour and your son will never need to be a part of the process. Though I seriously recommend talking to a professional about whether or not they think it needs special handling. Chances are he will have a vague memory of a yucky place and a cold shower and that will be it.

I hope they lose more than their licence. mad  >Sad  Sad  wacko  mad  mad  mad

Tell your Mum God can punish them the police will just make sure it's only for what has already happened not a whole list of other occurrences in upcoming years. Because you have the power to prevent it.

I think you will find you have ample support.



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