my husband always wanted a girl but its a boy. now he wants to have a second child but I am not sure whether I'll be able to handle 2 kids or not. Ishan is very naughty & need full time attention.
out here in forum there are many moms with more than 1 kid.. I want to know how do you manage to handle them . for me you are all super moms!
Honestly, I feel this is kind of an unusual situation where the father is saying that he prefers a daughter, except in the case of adoption. If it is the father's own biological offspring, most of the time the father prefers a boy or has no preference. Why does your husband say that he prefers a girl over a boy? Would he be more disappointed if you have another one and it's a boy, for now he has 2 boys and no girls? If you have 2 boys and no girls, will he want you to have 3, 4 or more until he gets a girl? I just have never heard of this, many men express that they prefer a girl to cushion the "blow" if it is actually a girl because they have too many hopes wrapped up in having a boy, but I've never heard of a man actually preferring a girl over a boy. If you and hubby want more children, then by all means you should have more, but if you are having kids for the wrong reasons, to fulfill hopes of a certain gender and the child of that gender may not even "deliver" on those hopes, then I think people need to clear their heads before they proceed to have more.
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