You asked for the first 3 months... You do not really need any dVDs with video for that time. 0-3 months is good time to love your baby, bond with him or her, you can read poems, simple stories, sing, play music and dance together, while you are wearing him/her, do some tactile activities, lots of nursing and sleeping also will be on his/her agenda,
etc. Videos do not come till later, really... Hope you will have a wonderful time greeting your little one very soon, so happy for you!!!!