Kandcsmomma,
Like Lori mentioned you can find a lot in discussions on the forum -- ideas for activities, books, learning tools. You can use search button at the top of this page to search for any key word or topic.
Plus I would encourage you to post! Any specific question you might have will take just a few minutes to post, but I got a lot of help and ideas in the beginning of my learning journey just bringing it up for discussion here. Parents here are very kind, open minded and understanding, and the best thing -- they are usually suggesting what worked for them!
Here is also a link to Special needs board Lori mentioned -
http://forum.brillkids.com/parents-with-special-needs-children/But do not hesitate to post questions in other related boards as well!
You also might want to check a special scholarship program we have for special needs children here --
http://www.eeecf.org/sponsorships/individual-sponsorships.php Because we want them to succeed
It is wonderful to have you here, welcome to the Forums!