When my oldest was 3, she was task oriented, motivated by reward and I had a newborn. I drew each of her bedtime tasks (brushing teeth, putting on pjs, giving water to the dog) on a strip of cardboard. I hung a sheet of paper underneath to make a chart. For each task completed, she could put a sticker or something in the square under the picture. I think we added up the stickers and she got a few pennies for doing her 'jobs'. Face it, it is work to get her ready for bed. I didn't mind that she got the credit.
The tasks changed but we kept the practice for several years. She still loves lists at 21 years old ... and her teeth are great, only one cavity after all this time