If I have even reached one parent I am leaving happy..
Well, you can be happy. In this forum we share methods, tips and experiences on early education. Your input is significant and your experience is reputable. Thank you very much for that and you can be sure that many parents will study your materials very carefully. Karma to you
But usually we share our methods without attacking other methods. Such a kind approach makes the audience even more perceptive

Probably there are some misunderstandings because of ages. My first kid (now 4 years) learned to read with mixed approach; she knew phonics but I did not stress it very much. Whole word approach dominated in our learning. Her teachers now say that she is much above the average, not because of her reading but because of her vocabulary and thinking. I think, nobody is writing governmental reports on her literacy because she is too young.
My 2 year old knows phonics and I show him whole words. I use self-made flashcards. He learns words easy and it seems that he has a very good memory. If the method will not work - I have plenty of time to switch the method and to teach him to read until someone will start to compile governmental reports on him.
In this forum, we teach babies and toddlers to read. If we are not successful we search for help and other methods. Probably you write your governmental reports on 6 - 7 year old kids. Probably, nobody is teaching 6 - 7 year old children to read with whole word approach in this forum.
If you meet failures of whole word approach you should study them, too. Possible reasons:
- too late (method is not recommended after 5 year age except for children with brain damage);
- too superficial approach. if parents do not go deep in their kids interests, kids just refuse to watch.
I just do not believe that parents show thousands of words with ease. That is not easy; that is a continuous fight with own laziness and for kids interest. Many parents start - and give up within few days. Probably, when a governmental person comes and asks "why your 7 year old is not reading", it is easy to answer "we use whole word approach" instead of "we did not care and we left our kid 24/7 at the TV". like "a cat did it in my pants".
We will study and try your method. You should also try whole word approach. You will see that it is not easy and probably there something is not "clean" in these cases of failures.
But look at the most popular method of teaching reading in schools (flashcards) and the results- its not working.
Is this a popular method in schools? It is never, never used in my region. Sounds very interesting. At which age and in what amount?