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EARLY LEARNING / Teaching Your Child - Other Topics / Re: what is the best method to teach decipiline
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on: July 14, 2009, 02:04:04 AM
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This book sounded very interesting until I read your comments about it advising to spank. Now it's banned from my amazon wish list for good. There's so much talk about spanking being harmful to kids, they are so vulnerable. We spank them and then we want them to trust us... what do we teach our kids by spanking them? I strongly believe that spanked children are more aggresive and this is not the right way to discipline children, no matter how badly they behave, it can only make the matters worse. I was spanked as a child, I remeber the rage I felt and how much I hated my parents for doing this to me. I will not do this to my child.
The books I reccomend are "Discipline Without Distress" "Between Parent and Child" "Child:The Challenge"
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Parents' Lounge / General Parenting / Re: Breakfast?
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on: July 10, 2009, 03:07:33 AM
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How about good old oatmeal? This is our favorite, even my son loves it. I make it in many different ways: with cinnamon and raisins, with a little agava sweetener and berries, with pinnaple and almonds... I can go on and on
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Local Support Groups / General Discussions / Re: Little Reader
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on: July 02, 2009, 01:15:51 AM
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przepraszam,ze tak dlugo sie nie odzywalam, tesciowa odlatywala do Polski, sporo zamieszania bylo pliki o drzewach to swietny pomysl, chetnie skorzystam ja mam ochote troche plikow z astronomii zrobic, temat mnie fascynuje od dziecka, fajnie by bylo jakby i Kajtek zalapal bakcyla dorzucilam drugi plik o ptakach i nowy o rybach, zrobilam tez Instrumenty muzyczne, musze tylko dodac glos czytalam o Tweedle Wink, super sprawa, wiem jednak ze maz sie na zakup nie zgodzi nie moge Ci napisac na forum jaki jest najlepszy sposob na meza, bo mnie zbanuja, powiem tylko tyle,slowo sklada sie z czterech liter, zaczyan sie na s i konczy sie na s, i jak sie to robi to sie pali duzo kalorii Kajtek dalej najchetniej bawi sie samochodami i pilkami, teraz lubi tez odbijac balona paletkami do badmingtona, fajna zabawa, mi tez sie podoba hihi staram sie angazowac go jak naczesciej w to co robie - gotowanie, sprzatanie, ukladanie zakupow pozytywna zmiana - Kajtus zaczyna przynosic mi ksiazeczki do czytania, jestem w siodmym niebie. Idzie do nas duza paczka z ksiazeczkami z Polski, zamowilam 20 nowych pozycji, juz nie moge sie doczekac 
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Parents' Lounge / General Parenting / Re: potting training
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on: June 29, 2009, 11:34:40 PM
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my son has no even been bon n my moher hs already iving me a training toilet, is it possible to train a baby befoe two? i dont want to think abo the pssible messes, isnt i bettr to let thm go n heir diaper. i a bby cant si up why would they b able to understand abot uing the toilet, tink my moher is being silly.
It's possible, read a little about Elimination Communication
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Parents' Lounge / General Parenting / Re: What are you doing discipline-wise with your child now?
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on: June 19, 2009, 06:20:28 PM
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15-month old is too young for real discipline, this is what I read in many books on children development, he's brain isn't ready for that. I think you are doing great job with distracting your child, he's too young for time-outs, young children don't have the ability to think thru their actions, no logical thinking yet, this is what everyone expects from time outs, right? I'm mostly using positive reinforcement and we don't have tantrum problem. Also, I give my child lots of choices, I give him only two options and I do it whith things that are not important, things like, which pair of pants do you want or do you want oatmeal with banana or with apple, it makes the child feel in control, we all want feel like that from time to time, right?  I never leave my child to cry it out unless it's clear that he does it for show only, which happened twice. I don't plan on using time out, spanking and punishment ever.
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EARLY LEARNING / Early Learning - General Discussions / Re: worried about child
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on: June 19, 2009, 12:14:47 PM
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Yes, call Dr. Mercola a.s.a.p! He is truly an awesome doctor and his is on the cutting edge of medicine and nutrition and eating behavior. This is his specialty so get in touch with him right away. His website is www.mercola.com . I would also like to recommend dr Deorio who does phone consultations, he's also on the edge of natural medicine and nutrition, works with homeopathy, he is very intuitive. He helped my son, who had parasite and candida problem. I was desperate to find a good doctor, went thru five pedriatitians who ignored the problem saying that Kaietan has nightmares. Dr Deorio was referred to me by a friend who also had huge health problems and he helped her. I also called doctor Mercola, he's in my area but the prices are so high I could not afford him. Dr. Deorio's number 310-828-3096
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