To kizudo,
I can see why the Suzuki teachers would not take a kid younger than 3 years old:
The Suzuki method starts teaching kids to play an instrument, not general music but a formal instrument. The size of the child then it is very important since they have to be able to hold properly or sit properly in front of such instrument.
If you do violin:
- The instrument is very fragile and even a 3 year old is not very coordinated, the 1/32 violins are still pricey, if it breaks or if the bow breaks, to replace it can be frustrating for any parent. Besides, size in this instrument matters because the child needs to be able to have an arm long enough to reach the 'neck' of the violin and hold the strings, also the child needs to be able to hold the violin with his neck and learn to not let go.
- There is a lot of hand eye coordination required specifically for this instrument, both hands do 2 different things all the time. Even for 3 years old it takes a while to hear them playing something like the 'twinkles'.
The classes usually are a one on one, so they can be pricey as well, and since they do not push the kid to perform at an specific level, if your child takes his time learning, the process might seem long for some parents until you see some fruits.
if you play piano:
-Same thing, the child needs to be able to reach the keynotes with both hands. Now they have very nice benches that go up and down.
-This instrument is much more kid friendly than violin, is hard to break
, no need for a lot of fine motor skills in the beginning, however they will be acquired. And as a parent, you will not have the same amount of stress while practicing at home since this is very important for teaching your child at home, it reflects much better and faster in the fruits or progress of your child. Teaching at home needs to be a happy experience.
We did for a year both instruments, and a lot of parents I know with 3 year olds switched to piano because of the reasons I gave above.
I am not a musician, but I am learning as well, and I had to take a semester in violin so I can understand better how my child feels with the instrument and how to approach him better, I loved violin but believe me it is not an easy instrument
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I still would like him to go back to violin at some point, maybe in a year, but for now he is doing well at piano.
If you want to introduce your child to general music concepts I know there is Kindermusic for babies, etc. I am not familiar with that system, never attended a class, but I know you can start those as early as babies.
I am sticking to the Suzuki method and teaching my baby girl the same way.
HTH and sorry for the long email!