Thanks for that article. I couldn't agree more. I've found with my own kids that they actually appreciate being involved and responsible. Most of the 'chore' activity just has to do with picking up after themselves and clearing dishes (even 3 year olds can learn this habit, with adult help/supervision).

Thank you again for posting!

... when you pry it from my cold, dead hand... My favorite blogger here (as if you didn't know) http://Http://bit.ly/bogU6v, but this post about unplugging while being with my kids seems just one more reason to feel guilty about my parenting. I work at home as much as possible, so yes, I am on the phone and computer. But isn't half my attention better than absence altogether? Ahhh. Compromise.  >

Right, but there is also stunning evidence that boys are 'favored' in math/science classes as they get older. I saw a news segment once -- boys called on more than girls, that sort of thing.

Unplugged, screen free, no winner/loser, creative, thoughtful, family fun for toddlers-12yrs. Love it! http://bit.ly/aeEF3T
 

"If I have any advice, it's to avoid working with care providers that are outright hostile to early learning.
Seek out a situation that is rich in language, even if it is a foreign language.
Find care providers that will give your LO a lot of fresh air and exercise outdoors.
Care providers from other countries (i.e. outside of America) seem less hostile to early learning, in my experience."
Mom2Ross - great advice, and it sounds like you've been very, very fortunate with your childcare situation. I'm jealous.

Thanks, Twinergy. Interesting stuff. Of course, I'm always hesitant to pigeon hole any child, boy or girl... the science nonwithstanding. 

I love that hammering! Thanks for all these great ideas!

My kids have all been different. The girls would sometimes read books cover to cover in one sitting, but always starting at the beginning. My boy sometimes starts in the middle, with a section (or page) he praticularly likes. Not sure if it's the picture or the 'action' (such as it is). I have noticed my boy doesn't spend as much uninterrupted time reading. The girls could sit for 15-25 minutes by themselves reading when they were toddlers. The boy... maybe 5 or 10. He has more physical energy, doesn't like sitting still (does his best work on his feet!, which is fine by us), maybe a shorter attention span when left on his own. All  our kids have enjoyed the experience of reading together at bedtime. It accomplishes so much in terms of relationship and bonding, not to mention fostering a love of books.

Good luck with your essay!

If you must (or want to) use a caregiver (grandparent, nanny, daycare, tutuor) to look after your LO, how do you know who's right and will nurture your child -- mind, body, spirit -- in the manner you would approve of. This seems to be the most important decision. Then there is transitioning the baby/toddler, transitioning the caregiver... More here http://Http://bit.ly/csPdeC.

I have had some limited help with my 3 kids over the years, but I have never been entirely comfortable that the caregiver was on the same page as me. It's a tough decision, and NOT something to settle for second best. 

 
McDume, maybe it also depends on the environment you are raised.

No doubt!

As other have said in other words... you have to be very careful 'sharing' your knowledge with other parents. Their first instinct is defensiveness, like you're judging them for not doing right by their babies. From there, it's easy to become critical, and then judgemental.... honestly, sharing your philosophy and practice is not the best way to 'win friends and influence people'... just stand by your guns and do what is best for your babies. That's my philosophy..

5, 3 and 4... the older child liked to play 'school', so the younger siblings would literally sit at chairs attentively while the older one stood at a white board and gave lessons... very cute, and VERY helpful.

I didn't walk until I was 14 months! Speaking with my mother recently, I understand why -- I had no need to walk. I had 3 older siblings, my parents and a care giver all happy to give me a ride!

The amazing thing about moms (and dads) is that just when you think you can't take anymore pressure, the thought pops in your mind... I want another baby.

It always works out. You cannot make a bad decision. If you have a 3rd, everything else in your life will adjust to accomodate. You have more love in your heart than you think is possible. And love makes everything possible.

2010BEBES - I love that !!!