This is what I have done:

- 1.5 years old; Introducing Doman and Little Reader.
- 1.8 years old; introducing phonics and letter sounds
- 2 years old; started blending
- 2.1 years old; Started Little Math. I wish I could turn back the hand of time! I should have started Little Math earlier. It was such a challenge to teach a 2 years old flash Math cards. He was not into it. We were struggling but managed to finish the curriculum. 
- 3 year old; More into Phonic based reading
- 4 years old; Marshmallow Math

Now, we are looking for long distance or online homeschool curriculum to supplement his full time school.
The topic I am struggling with is Math. I am all over the place. I tried Right Start but he did not like it at all!

We are on the same boat! My son is 4 and we have been doing LR and some phonic based approaches since he was 1.5 years old. He is in Montessori school. I never mentioned to his teacher that he could read. Just like Stodd, I don't know what grade level he is at. I don't know how to measure it.

He's got great remarks and comments (reading) on his report cards. They are teaching basic letter sounds in the class. They are not blending or making words yet!! I used to ask the school about their approaches in dealing with advanced children. They just told me there are many kids they have to take care of. They can give him extra works and I would have to work with him at home.    

We are transferring him to a public school this September. I am planning to enroll him into some long distance learning program which will be supplementary to the public school curriculum.