With my first one I worked after my six weeks maternaty leave for about 4 months and only 4 hours a day he would stay with my mother or my grandmother in law. I hated it.Pluse I breastfeed and hadd to break away from work to pump!!!!

Well then hubby joine Air Force and he graduated boot camp day after thanks giving. Working at wal mart that is the biggest sales day of the year well that left me no choice but to quite since I could have the week before and the week after just not that day off. I have been a stay at home mom ever since have two boys now and I love it. yes sometimes I let cleaning and reading and internet get in the way but most days i just read read read and play with them all day. But do what works for your family and what will make you and hubby happiest. I say ask hubby what he wants adn go from there