No you are not being unreasonable. You are carrying the baby and how you want to give birth and who you want around is your choice. You will only be in the hospital 48 hours without a c-section with a c-section you only get an additional 24 hours. People need to get a grip and stop trying to control other peoples lives. Your partner needs to support your choices and not cave to family. Family will pull on you all wanting a lot over the years you all have to decide what works for you. Some people will like it and some will not. Good luck with the baby and don't let this stress you out.
I know you don't charge us more than it cost you to ship. I did not realize everything was shipped from Hong Kong. We just aren't use to paying so much for shipping in the US, however, the products are definitely worth it.
I will continue to pray for you and your family. I am glad your trip was fruitful and I am looking forward to hearing more awesome news. God Bless You and Your Family!