i speak to my gal in english & cantonese and other family members speak to her in Hakka and mandarin since born.  She get used to it.  She will know which language to speak with different people.  Amazing.....    but sometimes  she will mixing few language in one sentence.   

it would be good to expose the kids with different languages since young....

i started to potty train my gal since born, she get used to it then.. I tried to train her without diaper nite time during 2 years old.  She still pee on the bed, this made her body wet, she doesn't like that, then she will cry n I will change pant for her .  After 3 times pee on the bed, she woke up n pee on the potty herself .....

[/quote] i have read a book title: HOW TO TALK SO KIDS CAN LEARN AT HOME AND IN SCHOOL by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish.   I like this book very much     other than just theory part, the book shown the real life story with comic pictures, so it will be more easy to understand... I practiced some of the ways, n it works.   Try to read it....

Thank you for the great info. I m going to print it out and stick it on a wall

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