The ones I used were from our honeymoon and happened to be the type which clip over each ear independently, so we just laid them either side of the bump. I have a vague idea that we might have tried to secure them somehow, but to be perfectly honest I can't think how, as it was over 10 years ago now and I'm pretty sure Pam would have rebelled if I'd tried to afix them to her belly with duct tape...

I was concerned at first about the risk of it being too loud, so I found a comfortable listening level for myself then dropped it half a notch; despite all the layers of "insulation" between Ben and the outside world, it would seem that I stumbled upon a suitable level. We went to a firework display at about the 6-month mark, and he certainly let Pam know when that was too loud for him! The playing-of-tapes was normally done during the evening in a quiet, relaxed atmosphere with no TV or music in the background, which I guess were all condusive to his concentration, as it were.
My sister-in-law used to watch a particular TV soap opera several nights a week while she was pregnant with my nephew, and he apparently associated the title theme music with his Mum relaxing, because when he was born, he would always calm down whenever EastEnders came on. They cottoned onto this pretty quickly, and managed to buy a copy of the theme tune on CD, which they then played to him in the evening to get him to go to sleep. It worked a treat. I don't know if she was in the habit of turning the TV up loud, but she certainly wasn't sitting on top of it, so perhaps they can hear better than we might have expected.
KL - thanks, but you've rather outdone me here; I'm a database guy, and web design is most definitely not my forte, so seeing what you've achieved with BrillBaby has only reinforced my conviction that my own page looks decidely amateurish. Ah well...
