Lelask,
I am so glad you mentioned that once they get older they want to do their own thing. That is exactly right. She wants to do the exact opposite of everything I want her to do. Everytime I try to do something with her she says, "Not today mommy!" That used to be funny but now it drives me nuts.
I find I can do a better job of educating when we stay home the whole day. That is tough because I organize a weekly playgroup and we do gymnastics, dance, and a kids music class. I feel like we need to do structured activities outside the home to make sure she has lots of social interaction. I also think it will get much easier when they are a bit older and don't sleep as much. She still sleeps 12 hours at night with a 2-3 hour nap. That is great for giving me a little time but makes it even harder to get in all our activities.
Nadia,
I need to get a schedule. I will be glad to see what you post. I am going to try to get Soft Mozart added in each day but I have no idea when that will fit in.
I need to relax more and try to have some fun with all of this. It is nice to know that others have the same worries!