Wow thanks a whole lot I am definitely putting a lot of thought into everything you said and definitely am trying to minimize the time I alow him to spend in front of a TV. I love baby signing time right now I haven't bought any dvds but I do go on YouTube and there is a couple lessons on it and then other programs and signing songs but baby signing time has Ben my favorite I try to incorporate a lot of signs into my daily activities . That's amazing that you taught your daughter signing I've herd so many benifits. I definitely think I need to take my son for more walks that's a great idea he does love to be outside I'm going to take him to the beach this weekend and I will be able to explain a lit over thier since it's a new surrounding for him. But ya I really appreciate everything you wrote me definitely can tell you put your time into it