Is it better to bring the child to abroad and be with the parents?

Althea

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« on: February 26, 2009, 05:27:02 PM »

my husband is in Qatar, and decides to bring us kami ni Angela my 3 years old daughter...but my parents will were telling me that we cant save money if we bring our kid... kasi mahal daw lahat sa abroad...Im going to work too when we go there... my husband wants to be with our daughter he wants to be close to her...
and for me... i wanted to continue my carrier and to be with hubby too...of course as a FAMILY... 3 of us...


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Re: Is it better to bring the child to abroad and be with the parents?

« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2009, 03:48:12 AM »

Hi Althea,

I think depende ito sa family situation mo.

IMHO, mas mabuti kapag ang mga bata ay kasama ng mga magulang, kasi hindi din buo ang pamily kapag magkalayo sila. At isa pa, iba din na nakikita mo ang mga anak mong lumalaki at nagagabayan mo sila ng maayos.

It may be true, that everything else in other countries may be more expensive than in the Philippines, pero kapag gusto, laging may paraan.

Ito naman ay opinion ko lamang. I would love to hear other people's opinion on this matter, too!


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wintermommy

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Re: Is it better to bring the child to abroad and be with the parents?

« Reply #2 on: May 28, 2009, 04:13:05 PM »

Hi Althea,

I think kids should be with there parents, if possible. Sure its hard because both parents will be working, but kids will need the love and guidance of parents. So take your kids with you if you can. I may have strong opinion for this, but you should just use good judgment on this. After all, only parents have the best interest for kids. Good luck


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Danellie

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Re: Is it better to bring the child to abroad and be with the parents?

« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2009, 04:08:31 AM »

Marami akong kakilala na mas pinili nilang makasama ang kanilang anak sa ibang bansa kaysa iwanan nila sa Pilipinas.
Naranasan ng friend ko na nasa Qatar din ngayon na iwanan ang kanyang 5 y/o na anak dito, pero ilang buwan lang pinasunod nya na rin doon dahil iniisip nilang mag-asawa na iba pa rin na sila ang kasama ng bata.
Mas mahirap daw ang sitwasyon ngayon kaysa noong silang 2 mag-aswa lang doon, pero iba naman daw ang saya nilang mag-anak ng sila ay magkakasama na.
Isa pa, hirap din daw silang makaipon ngayon kasi nga iba na rin ang gastos at nag-aaral pa ang bata pero ang iniisip na lang daw nila, ang mga araw na kasama ang kanilang anak ay hindi matutumbasan ng anumang perang knikita nila doon.


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