Salam Doa,
Sorry for this late reply, I lost the direct link to the thread
Well, it's hard to answer to your questions. My experience is limited as my son is only 12 months. I am using the same DVDs to teach him languages (Little Pim). I think it helps him to make connections between the different ways the same thing is called. I also use sign language when I talk to him in the 5 languages I speak. However, I don't understand a word of Chinese and I am trying to teach it. I use LR simplified Chinese, Little Pim and videos on YouTube. We listen to Chinese Radio channels and I have a couple of iPhone apps with flashcards as well. I have no idea if he will speak this language eventually but he already says 3 Chinese words. Surprisingly, he hasn't said any word in German yet though we read a lot of books and watch LR. You can watch a video in this post showing how I use LR with learning reiforcent here:
http://babyalbab.blogspot.com/2011/10/product-review-brillkids-little-reader.htmlIt's difficult to conclude whether this works or not. My advice is: do your best, wait and see. Most importantly: خليها على الله
For Doman books, try Google Books, you may get some free pages. I honestly think that Brillkids free ebooks summarize the subject very well. Also try DadDude free Ebook:
http://www.larrysanger.org/reading.htmlYou can also request a free Ebook from Tweedlewink.
I have few other ebooks, you can PM me with your email address so I send them to you in sha'Allah.
Arabic is known to be one of the most difficult languages especially for its grammar. But this is our mother tongue

so it shouldn't be that hard. Listening to Qur'an helps a lot because grammar, pronunciation, etc. are perfect. So she will effortlessly learn from it in sha' Allah. One more thing about Arabic: it's a phonetic language, i.e: every letter is pronounced, unlike English. It is crucial that she learns the alphabet along with the diacritic signs (shakl).
For flashing Qur'an, try to use different font and background colors. That may keep your child interested.
I hope this helps