Hi,
I think we're in a similar situation.We're Romanians, living in Ro, but I speak mostly English with my 5 yrs old daughter.
I've been homeschooling her in English until now, so I've been reaching reading in English.
She learned the letter sounds in English when she was about 3 mostly from Starfall ABC. (I taught her only letter sounds because those are used connect and build up words). Then it took a few months until she understood that sounds connect to make words -- first it clicked on her hearing the sounds making words -- in conversation -- and then a couple months later, visually too.
As regards whole word reading --- I only found out about Doman and whole word reading when she was 3.5, so that was a bit late I guess, because she wasn't in the least interested about it. I tried showing flashcards but no success, she would try to decode everything phonetically.
We continued to use the Montessori reading series, ipad apps, games, early readers etc. Readingbear is good too.
And recently, I realized she wants to have more fluency, that she's trying to sight read as much as she can -- so we learn sight words every day and she's been doing great, progress was quick and guess what, now she enjoys flashcards!
As for reading in Romanian -- that proved to be way easier, once she already knew how to read phonetically in English. Some letter sounds are different but the way you read is basically the same.
Adina
http://ourenglishhomeschool.blogspot.ro/