what is the best method to teach decipiline

[ayana]

please help if anyone knows let me know.
Thanks

[Krista G]

A book that changed my life, and made it possible for me to have 6 children is To Train Up A Child.  It will show you how to discipline your child as well as train your child.

To Train Up A Child

From successful parents, learn how to train up your children rather than discipline them up. With humor and real-life examples this book shows you how to train your children before the need to discipline arises. Be done with corrective discipline; make them allies rather than adversaries. The stress will be gone and your obedient children will praise you and bring joy and peace into your home. Thousands have testified to the amazing results of these profoundly simple techniques. This book is not about discipline, nor problem children. The emphasis is on the training of a child before the need to discipline arises. It is apparent that, though they expect obedience, most parents never attempt to train their child to obey. They wait until his behavior becomes unbearable and then explode. With proper training, discipline can be reduced to 5% of what many now practice. As you come to understand the difference between training and discipline, you will have a renewed vision for your family?no more raised voices, no contention, no bad attitudes, fewer spankings, a cheerful atmosphere in the home, and total obedience from your children. Any parent with an emotional maturity level higher than the average thirteen-year-old can, with a proper vision and knowledge of the technique, have happy obedient children. This is not a theory; it is a practical reality that has been successfully applied many times over.

Here is a link to see the book.

http://stores.intellbaby.com/-strse-46/To-Train-Up-A/Detail.bok

[staceycanada]

That sounds like a really good book and I believe I saw that one at my library. Thank you for sharing.

[KUAngie]

I like the "Love and Logic" books and "Magic 1,2,3" books.

Angie

[staceycanada]

I used 1,2,3 Magic with my yds and a book called try and make me. They were both very good.

[PY]

thanks for the ideas..

[piyu]

thanks to all. I'll check these books

[patience]

Thanks for sharing!! So far I have looked further into To Train Up A Child and it sounds really good

[LDSMom]

I have always loved the Supernanny TV show. Through it I learned that it's usually the parents that are doing things wrong and not the kids. So with my son, we use her techniques and they work so well! Here is the website. http://www.supernanny.com/

[KUAngie]

I also wanted to say that "Love and Logic" series has books specifically geared towards age 6 & younger and teenagers.  They have conferences all over the country and we are going to a seminar held by the authors this weekend.  They also have a podcast.

Both "Love & Logic" and "Magic 1,2,3" are also used by teachers at school.

I will say that Magic 1,2,3 really has to be used properly.  You count 1,2,3 and if the behavior hasn't changed, they get a consequence.  My Mom counted when I was a kid, and I hated it.  You have to always be consistent- no 2&1/2, or counting over 3.

Angie

[joyMegha]

2 books I've come across viz., :
" Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours"
and
"Discipline with Love" are good ones.

[purplefungi]

The book, The Happiest Toddler on the Block, might be helpful.

http://www.thehappiestbaby.com/

[cybermommy]

I'll have to check a lot of those out!

A comment on the 1,2,3 thing. I haven't read the book, but I observe many parents using it successfully with their kids. So I tried it with my 3 year old. His response?

"No, Mommy, count to 100!"

"I'm not going to count to 100!"

"It's okay, Mommy. I'll help you!"

[manjalara]

  thanks for sharing!!

[staceycanada]

I'll have to check a lot of those out!

A comment on the 1,2,3 thing. I haven't read the book, but I observe many parents using it successfully with their kids. So I tried it with my 3 year old. His response?

"No, Mommy, count to 100!"

"I'm not going to count to 100!"

"It's okay, Mommy. I'll help you!"

That's hilarious maybe not effective but sure is funny!

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